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Repost: When does it get better?
This is so very true. We have to quit - we have to let the smoke screen clear and then we can finally see the lies our addiction had been telling us to keep us enslaved. I remember crying for the loss of my 25 best friends. I journaled about how much I missed them. Folks - your friends do not try to kill you - keep that in mind and do not shed a single tear for them as they do not care about you.
Quitting is challenging but the freedom you gain - soooo worth...Repost: When does it get better?
This is so very true. We have to quit - we have to let the smoke screen clear and then we can finally see the lies our addiction had been telling us to keep us enslaved. I remember crying for the loss of my 25 best friends. I journaled about how much I missed them. Folks - your friends do not try to kill you - keep that in mind and do not shed a single tear for them as they do not care about you.
Quitting is challenging but the freedom you gain - soooo worth the effort.
KTQ
Cara
D7005
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when does it get better
From awojo on 1/17/2012 2:19:27 PM
I asked this question here at the Q at a point in time when I was really, really struggling in my quit. I want to share with you one of the answers I received, because I printed these words out and put them up in my office:
When will this pass is a question asked many times here on the Q. I cannot give you an exact date but I can tell you this.
It will pass when you finally and completely let go of the idea that you are missing something by not smoking.
It ends when you come to the realisation that there is no way that sucking noxious poison fumes into your body will make your life better in any way.
It gets better when you accept that your life is really better without cigarettes and decide to live life, with all its ups and downs, without a chemical crutch.
Do this and I promise it will get better.
KTQ
Dan
548 days, 23 hours, 18 minutes and 35 seconds smoke free. 16469 cigarettes not smoked. $5,352.75 and 4 months, 5 days, 19 hours of my life saved! My quit date: 5/2/2010 11:59:59 AM
I hope Dan's words hit home for you the way they did for me. It was the reality check I needed at a critical time when I was fed up with my quit.
And you know what....Dan was right. I changed my mind about what I thought I was "missing", and it got BETTER. And now here I am, with over 100 days smoke free and it is better!
It's worth it. KTQ.
Adele
102 days, 14 hours, 7 minutes and 21 seconds smoke free. 1847 cigarettes not smoked. $881.28 and 14 days, 2 hours of my life saved! My quit date: 10/7/2011
(Thank you again, Dan, for the reality check!)
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Good morning all - sorry about your Leafs Tman
Happy Monday !!!!!
Up and going for the day today. Going to work on packing - our dishwasher sucks here so I have a sink of dishes to do. Laundry to be done once I have hauled all the garbage out. Saying NO to smoking today and keeping to my path along the Freedom Road. My hand is offered to the next winning quitter joining me today.
Have a good one
Cara
D7005
4Y 0M
Life Saved
$104,024
Money Saved
189,135
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Repost: Sayings, Slogans, and "Catch Phrases"
Good morning
Some really positive stuff found in here. My mantras and sayings really helped me in my early days. The one I continue to hold and forever will is 'I am one puff away from a pack a day'. That will forever be true.
Hope you find something in here that helps you out and motivates you to keep that awesome quit going.
KTQ
Cara
D7004
...Repost: Sayings, Slogans, and "Catch Phrases"
Good morning
Some really positive stuff found in here. My mantras and sayings really helped me in my early days. The one I continue to hold and forever will is 'I am one puff away from a pack a day'. That will forever be true.
Hope you find something in here that helps you out and motivates you to keep that awesome quit going.
KTQ
Cara
D7004
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Sayings, Slogans, and "Catch Phrases" have been part of 12 step programs from the beginning. Here are a few that we know.
The list grows with time.
• First Things First •
Live and Let Live
• Let go and let God
• Time takes time
• One day at a time
• Cultivate an attitude of gratitude
• Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less • Live life on life's terms
• You can't think your way into a new way of living...you have to live your way into a new way of thinking
• GOD = Good Orderly Direction
• HALT = don't get to Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired
• Your worth should never depend on another persons opinion
• HOW it works = Honesty, Open mindedness, and Willingness
• SLIP = Sobriety Lost Its Priority
• Don't pick up, ask for help, call your sponsor, and go to meetings
• It's a simple program for complicated people
• It works if you work it
• Learn to listen and listen to learn
• Many meetings, many chances; few meetings, few chances; no meetings, no chances
• Meeting makers make it
• People who don't go to meetings don't hear about what happens to people who don't go to meetings
• To keep what you have, you have to give it away
• How does it work? It works just fine
• If you don't want to slip, stay away from slippery places
• If you do what you always did, you'll get what you always got
• If you sit in the barber's chair long enough, you'll eventually get a haircut
• Most things can be preserved in alcohol; dignity, however, is not one of them
• Progress, not perfection • think......think.......think • Keep it simple
• This too shall pass • Stick with the winners
• H O P E = Happy Our Program Exists • Recovery is a journey ...not a destination
• To thine own self be true
• Turn it over • Nothing is so bad, a drink won't make it worse
• Willingness is the key
• Keep the plug in the jug
• Do it sober
• Hugs not Drugs
• Just for Today
• Pass it on
• Don't quit before the miracle happens
• Time takes time • Use the 24-hour plan
• When all else fails, follow directions
• Change is a process, not an event
• Call your sponsor before, not after, you take the first drink
• I was sick and tired of being sick and tired
• It's the first drink that gets you drunk
• Take what you can use and leave the rest
• Help is only a phone call away
• One drink is too many and a thousand not enough
• Keep coming back
• Easy does it
• Principles before personalities
• Seven days without a meeting makes one weak
• If it looks like a Duck and it Quacks like a Duck it's probably a Duck
• One of the best parts of recovery is getting your feelings back. The worst part is getting your feelings back.
• A GRATEFUL Alcoholic won't drink
• Give time...time • Is your program powered by Will Power or Higher Power?
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Good morning all
Happy Sunday to you!!!!
Up and going for the day today. I am going to get my nails done this morning. No packing today back at that tomorrow. Saying NO to smoking today and keeping to my path on the Freedom Road. I am offering my hand in friendship and support to the next winner joining me kicking ash to the curb today.
Have a super Sunday!
Cara
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4Y 0M
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$104,009
Money Saved
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Repost: Get Hoeing!
Short, sweet and accurate – get hoeing!
Have a good one.
Cara
D7003
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Quit 2,814 days ago
Get Hoeing!
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Smoking is like a weed in the garden of life.
Good morning all
Happy Saturday to you!!!!
Out and about to pick up a few things at the store and packing and hauling garbage out as well. No time or interest in smoking thank you much. Long weekend to get extra work done. Smoking is not going to be part of my day today or any day thanks much. Saying NO to smoking and moving forward along the Freedom Road. I offer my hand in friendship and support to the next winning quitter joining me kicking ash to the curb.
Have a good one.
Cara
D7003
4Y 0M...Good morning all
Happy Saturday to you!!!!
Out and about to pick up a few things at the store and packing and hauling garbage out as well. No time or interest in smoking thank you much. Long weekend to get extra work done. Smoking is not going to be part of my day today or any day thanks much. Saying NO to smoking and moving forward along the Freedom Road. I offer my hand in friendship and support to the next winning quitter joining me kicking ash to the curb.
Have a good one.
Cara
D7003
4Y 0M
Life Saved
$103,995
Money Saved
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KTQ
Cara
D7002
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Don't Give A Damn
From DJD8960 on 2/7/2007 10:03:03 AM
I liked this advice...
Donna
Sometimes, it can seem that you are not making any progress, but you really are!
You're going through a stage that we all know.
You are still AFRAID of and want to GET RID of the desire to smoke.
Today try to notice if you are still FIGHTING the...Love this
KTQ
Cara
D7002
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Don't Give A Damn
From DJD8960 on 2/7/2007 10:03:03 AM
I liked this advice...
Donna
Sometimes, it can seem that you are not making any progress, but you really are!
You're going through a stage that we all know.
You are still AFRAID of and want to GET RID of the desire to smoke.
Today try to notice if you are still FIGHTING the desire to smoke -TRYING to make it go away.
I bet you are feeling:
"Oh, I wish this craving -this feeling would go away. When will it go away?"
And I bet you, now and then your mind whispers to you:
"What if it NEVER goes away? What if you will always feel like this?".
Don’t worry if you have this thought. .
It is ONLY a THOUGHT in your mind.
And it is not even ‘your thought.’ EVERYBODY who gives up smoking has these thoughts.
Try to accept: you are going to experience the desire to smoke for a long time yet.
You can decide to hate it and push it away OR you can say to yourself.
"OK, I going to stop kidding myself. For the next few weeks, I'm going to have these feelings -this desire to smoke. I'm NOT going to wish it goes away. No, I'm going to EXPECT it. I'm NOT going to run away from it or EVEN TRY TO MAKE IT GO AWAY.
In fact, I'm going to LET IT BE and say to it;
"You can do whatever you want......You can make me feel good OR bad, comfortable OR uncomfortable - I don't care. I REALLY, REALLY don't mind. You're finished. You're in your death throes. I'm just going to WATCH, NOTE AND OBSERVE you for HOWEVER long it takes...........
And if you can really adopt this attitude you'll experience the GREAT PARADOX: When you can get to the stage where you don't GIVE A DAMN whether the desire to smoke is there or not it will totally disappear!
Just wait and see!
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Good morning all
Happy Friday to you!
Up and going for the day. In the office and off to a location to see a couple of kids this morning at one of the south locations. Saying NO to smoking today and moving forward along the Freedom Road. I offer my hand to the next winner joining me kicking ash to the curb today.
Have a good one
Cara
D7002
4Y 0M
Life Saved
$103,980
Money Saved
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Unsmoked
Repost: Stress after quitting
Another excellent Eric repost.
Have a good day
Cara
D7001
Stress After Quitting
From Eric7704 on 12/3/2009 12:53:55 PM
Stress can be a huge trigger for people quitting smoking and a lot of people believe that on some level smoking relieved their stress. It didn't. Smoking actually creates stress.
The whole business of smoking is relieving an anxiety that the previous cigarette created. AN ANXIETY THAT SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE.
I'm sure...Repost: Stress after quitting
Another excellent Eric repost.
Have a good day
Cara
D7001
Stress After Quitting
From Eric7704 on 12/3/2009 12:53:55 PM
Stress can be a huge trigger for people quitting smoking and a lot of people believe that on some level smoking relieved their stress. It didn't. Smoking actually creates stress.
The whole business of smoking is relieving an anxiety that the previous cigarette created. AN ANXIETY THAT SHOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE.
I'm sure everyone here knows that nicotine releases dopamine, but that it only part of the story. Not only did the brain have to turn it's own sensitivity down to naturally release dopamine, causing the smoker to rely a lot more on the cigarette just to feel "nicotine normal", much like a child at the mercy of their parents for an allowance. Nicotine also had the ability to fit the smoker's adrenaline locks.
As the effects of nicotine wore off and adrenaline was pumping through the bloodstream. The smoker was left with a subtle fight or flight feeling. A heightened anxiety. A empty feeling of insecurity and an uncomfortableness.
The mind and body were being fooled into thinking that something was wrong. Like the person was in some kind of danger, when in fact, there was no outside danger there.
So the smoker would smoke a cigarette and temporarily switch off this response and once again feel safe and comfortable.
One of the problems with stress, is that nicotine is a very unstable alkoloid. Stress though is an acidic producing event. What this does is it actually causes the nicotine to get pulled out of the bloodstream at an accelerated rate. This will quickly put the smoker into the first stages of withdrawal.
So when we smoked and were under stress. This only created a compounded problem of having withdrawal on top of what was initially creating our stress.
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Good morning all
Happy Thursday to you!
Rainy cool day here today but since I owe, off to work I go. 6 days left. In the office today, hope to make it in and get home. Saying NO to smoking today and keeping to my path along the freedom Road. I offer my hand in friendship and support to the next winning quitter joining me kicking ash to the curb today.
Have a great day
Cara
D7001
4Y 0M
Life Saved
$103,965
Money Saved
189,027
Unsmoked